Maybe not.
Jirou grew up with that man. He was kind to her, and she was touched. She thought it was love between them. In fact, the relationship between them was just a little more friendship than ordinary friends.
Of course, this is Ji Rou's feeling. Dai Li is just listening to it. She can't figure out the real psychology of the two parties, and she can't know what kind of feeling Ji Rou has for the man named Xiang Lingfeng.